jeanoappleseed<p>Good morning fr <a href="https://social.vivaldi.net/tags/Pasadena" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>Pasadena</span></a>. Went to <a href="https://social.vivaldi.net/tags/LaCrescentaValleyDogPark" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>LaCrescentaValleyDogPark</span></a> again this AM. Last minute decision bc tomorrow Saturday, husband has weight watchers at 7 &I cannot leave Finn alone :(</p><p>After only 10 minutes <a href="https://social.vivaldi.net/tags/MosesTheServiceDog" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>MosesTheServiceDog</span></a> was quite tired from the running. Not a lot of other dogs, but he loves the running!</p><p>I'm personally really enjoying this new dog park. I'm glad I no longer go to the Pasadena Park; too much upset, disappointment, and other issues there. It's becoming a trigger so I cannot go there for safety reasons… PLUS it's much more social that sometime I find it can become overbearing. </p><p>This is a BIG change I've made to avoid meltdowns: changing dog parks. When a situation is out of control (like issues with dog park hours and lack of maintenance), but complaining makes Pasadena employees & management hostile, it's unsafe because of triggers. My complaints are fair and do not deserve hostility.</p><p>Triggers can create an unsafe situation for <a href="https://social.vivaldi.net/tags/ActuallyAutistic" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>ActuallyAutistic</span></a> people due to the high risk of emotional meltdown. And I've found out the hard way in SoCal that most southern Californians, when confronted with an <a href="https://social.vivaldi.net/tags/AutisticMeltdown" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>AutisticMeltdown</span></a>, resort to aggression and hostility. So it becomes plain dangerous. Californians aren't as relaxed as they claim to be. They are just like New Yorkers except pretending to be chill.</p>