Snowbird of Paradise<p><strong>Hey!</strong></p><p>A few minutes ago I heard one of my electronic devices and appliances go “Ding!” but I had no idea which device it was. They all sound much the same. I actually said out loud, to the non-persons who live in my apartment, “OK. What just beeped?” and I waited a moment to see if any of my appliances would answer me. None of them did.</p> Image from randtune via Android.gadgethacks.com <p>A week or so ago, I missed a couple of texts from one of my adult children because I failed to hear the discrete “Ping” on my phone. I was in another room for one of those pings, and there was ambient noise from other devices going on when the second ping sounded. My son wanted to know if I was free to chat, which I was, but I missed both of the moments because of the understated ping.</p><p>Consequently, I changed the sound for notifications from a genteel ping to an authoritative “Hey!” It is a woman’s voice and it gets my attention every time, even if I’m in another room.</p> Hey! image via Algot Runeman at Flickr.com <p>For some reason, it reminds me of my mother. I don’t think she ever yelled “Hey!” in my direction, but the tone is familiar. I remember her calling me in for tea time, or bed time, or bath time, as she stood in either of the front or back doorways of the family home. In those days, I played outside whenever possible, and usually close to home.</p><p>Once, though, I was waylaid by some friends who talked me into wandering further away. I ended up in a field and playground a long way from home, and I think I crossed a stream while wearing my school shoes. I also lost track of time, so that when I was walking back and getting close to home, I could see my mother standing on the sidewalk with her arms folded. I knew I was in trouble.</p><p>The time was much later than I had imagined and mum had become very anxious. In my family, parental anxiety translated into strict behavioural consequences. When she learned I had been in a stream, my mum said “There are leeches in that stream!” and I was promptly stripped of my clothes and put into a bath.</p><p>That was one of the few times when I felt my mother’s fears for me turn in chastisement. I never felt punished, exactly, but I always knew when I had crossed a line.</p><p>It is odd, then, that my cell phone’s “Hey!” reminds me of my mum when she was cross. She never actually said “Hey!”, but the tone of the voice on my phone is so close to my worried mum’s that it always gets my attention. It isn’t what is said that matters. It’s all in the resonance. And the folded arms.</p><p><a rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" class="hashtag u-tag u-category" href="https://snowbirdofparadise.com/tag/anxiety/" target="_blank">#anxiety</a> <a rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" class="hashtag u-tag u-category" href="https://snowbirdofparadise.com/tag/cell-phone/" target="_blank">#cellPhone</a> <a rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" class="hashtag u-tag u-category" href="https://snowbirdofparadise.com/tag/ding/" target="_blank">#Ding</a> <a rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" class="hashtag u-tag u-category" href="https://snowbirdofparadise.com/tag/family/" target="_blank">#family</a> <a rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" class="hashtag u-tag u-category" href="https://snowbirdofparadise.com/tag/humour/" target="_blank">#humour</a> <a rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" class="hashtag u-tag u-category" href="https://snowbirdofparadise.com/tag/mother/" target="_blank">#mother</a> <a rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" class="hashtag u-tag u-category" href="https://snowbirdofparadise.com/tag/notification/" target="_blank">#notification</a> <a rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" class="hashtag u-tag u-category" href="https://snowbirdofparadise.com/tag/ping/" target="_blank">#ping</a> <a rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" class="hashtag u-tag u-category" href="https://snowbirdofparadise.com/tag/tone/" target="_blank">#tone</a> <a rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" class="hashtag u-tag u-category" href="https://snowbirdofparadise.com/tag/voice/" target="_blank">#voice</a></p>