Adam Grant<p>To their own demise, humans will disguise 𝑜𝑢𝑡𝑐𝑜𝑚𝑒𝑠 in the language of 𝑝𝑙𝑎𝑛𝑠.</p><p>"Don't worry. Be happy" is not advice. It is an outcome. Sounds nice but you cannot follow this advice because there is no plan.<br>"Don't stress" same thing. You might as well say "Be rich."</p><p>Many a <a href="https://mastodon.online/tags/nyresolution" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank">#<span>nyresolution</span></a> do this. Getting regular exercise is a great goal but it's not a plan if you haven't solved the puzzle of how your schedule and motivation will allow for it.</p><p><a href="https://mastodon.online/tags/resolutions" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank">#<span>resolutions</span></a> <a href="https://mastodon.online/tags/resolutions2023" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank">#<span>resolutions2023</span></a> <a href="https://mastodon.online/tags/ny2023" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank">#<span>ny2023</span></a> <a href="https://mastodon.online/tags/newyears" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank">#<span>newyears</span></a></p>