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#RejectionSensitiveDysphoria

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It seems extremely difficult for a person with #RejectionSensitiveDysphoria to have emotionally-stable relationships with people who are unwilling or unable to directly address interpersonal issues.

For example, if I can't trust someone to tell me truthfully whether they are upset with me or not, I will be inclined to constantly worry about the status of my relationship with them.

On my end, I'm working on my emotional issues, but I don't see a reason to play on hard mode.

I WAS WRONG! MY FAMILY MEMBER WASN'T MAD AT ME, THEY WERE HAVING MIGRAINES! You have no idea how relieved I feel to have this air cleared. So glad I was wrong and was able to send them my love instead of spending the rest of the evening worrying that I'd been an irretrievable asshole. That's #RejectionSensitiveDysphoria combined with #rumination... it's a real issue for us #ADHD folks & it can be a doozy if it goes on unchecked. Finally, that churning emotion has my brain's permission to rest.

To all my , , and friends here:

Please take a minute to read about (aka ) if you aren't already aware of it.

Being aware of this temporary hell that many of us visit from time to time can help to cope with it. It helps, too, to know that you are not alone in feeling this way sometimes, and that your feelings are *lying to you* when they tell you that you don't deserve to live.

I think we react this way because of trauma. I don't think it's intrinsic to our brain wiring. The world tells us so often that we are human garbage. You are not garbage. Every human life has value, including your own.

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Since #MyADHD diagnosis, a lot of things have made more sense. One thing I’m happy to have learned about is Rejection sensitive dysphoria (RSD). I’m not happy I experience it, but I am happy to name it. Naming it helps take away some of its power over me.

I’m definitely experiencing this today. Given the trigger, I suspect it will take a while to move on from it. But, at least I know the cause and I know that I will get through it. Eventually.

Rejection sensitivity, ADHD drain, and the power of failure (Weston’s story) from the ADHD Ah-Ha! podcast player.fm/1BYsxjY

OK, last ADHD post of the day. I really identify with this video about Rejection Sensitive Dysphoria:

piped.video/watch?v=MoMiU4HLmh

Particularly;

"Do you ever experience your emotions as a physical sensation, as though you’ve been punched in the chest..."

Hell yes.

"Do you feel shame about the 'lack of control' you have over your emotions?"

Yup.

#ADHD #RSD #RejectionSensitiveDysphoria

@adhd

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