I used to attend a university for a diploma in computer engineering. After a few semesters, I decided to stop studying there. I needed to withdraw. However, what they call "student peers"—I am not sure what the term is in English—were being reductionist and maximalist regarding the official documents, stating that I had already agreed to and chosen the university and the study program in the online application form. This is not fair. I believe it is important to treat each person as an individual, as a whole person, rather than merely considering what I have done to prevent me from leaving. I wasn't there to fulfill their collectivist culture, believing I should prioritize the university's name and dignity at the cost of my own. At the moment, I want to take a break from writing this, as my mind is troubled by thoughts of my past, including the emotional abuse I experienced from the university staff. Unfair, right?
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Guess who is exploiting and taking advantage of my vulnerability and trust? My uncle. He can use any of my mistakes that he finds to justify bullying and mocking me. I don't even have money to pay for his liquid petroleum gas for cooking. I am really sad, and no one cares. I am still a student with so many debts that I can't pay. It's around RM50,000. What does he expect? Taking advantage of me? Using my inability to pay his bills and for LPG, and when I'm at my worst, it's time for him to kick me out of his house. I am actually homeless. But that terribly destroyed house doesn't count. My father wanted me to stay at my uncle's house for stable electricity. #FamilyIssues #Struggle #Support #Homeless #StudentLife #Debt #EmotionalAbuse #Bullying #Vulnerability #Trust #Hope #Vent #MentalHealth #IAmTheProduct #MutualAid #NoOneCares
Manipulation in Therapy: How Some Therapists Cross Ethical Boundaries to Control Clients
https://youtu.be/85yiPjFtGpI
#MentalHealth #Therapy #Psychology #TherapistEthics #EmotionalAbuse
When it comes from within your inner circle... it is even worse!
Experience the haunting reality of psychological abuse as the insidious presence of shadows feeding on despair, revealing the hidden horrors of everyday life in THE UNRAVELING series by Sandy Hoffman on Medium.com/@aidyspoetry.
A visceral exploration of resilience and defiance against an unseen menace.
In this gripping psychological horror tale, the shadows of betrayal and manipulation take on a life of their own. A woman confronts the demon within her partner, uncovering a truth more insidious than she ever imagined. Will she escape the shadows, or will they consume her?
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#theunraveling #psychologicalthriller #psychologicalabuse #PsychologicalHorror #gaslighting #storytelling #mentalhealth #emotionalabuse
https://medium.com/@aidyspoetry/the-demons-grasp-cccfdf3599fa
Eikaron #CaptainAwkward having some very good advice again today and I think some of us need to hear it.
Childhood emotional abuse linked to workplace conflicts in power-seeking employees https://www.psypost.org/childhood-emotional-abuse-linked-to-workplace-conflicts-in-power-seeking-employees/?utm_source=dlvr.it&utm_medium=mastodon #ChildhoodAbuse #EmotionalAbuse #WorkplaceConflict #PowerDynamics #MentalHealth
Although both #men & #women are affected by narcissism, women are much more prone to this life-damaging abuse(abused by both men and other women).
These are just a few words from some women who went through it and survived, some dont.
"I am very old now but I have only just discovered about covert narcissists, and realise these are the people I have had in my life all the time, from childhood. I am now on my own but others think it is because I am the awful one because I do not have anything to do with these people anymore including my own children, who turned out like their dad, a narcissist. Life feels very lonely."
"My marriage was shaky from day one, but when I said to the narcissist that we could go into counselling to try and sort things out, he said, 'Why should I do that when it isn't my fault, it's yours.' You can't discuss anything with these individuals; In the end, after 40 years of marriage, I was the one that said 'Goodbye' to our fractured relationship."
"My son was recently in an accident where he was seriously hurt but will recover just fine. My sister asked me if I cried when I found out because she cried her eyes out. Like it was a weird, creepy competition on who was more hurt. Who the hell competes over something like that? The weirdness never ends
Very low contact. I look back at what I used to put up with and can't believe I'm sane."
Literally, you will go "crazy " trying to figure them out. Life is too short...RUN AS FAST AS YOU CAN.
#Trauma #Abuse [#DomesticAbuse #SexualAbuse #MentalAbuse #EmotionalAbuse #ChildAbuse #DigitalAbuse #TechnologyAbuse #GenderAbuse #Bullying #Harassment #Violence #Deception #Tragedy ] #SelfAbsorption #SelfCentredness #Selfishness #Jealousy #Envy #Hate #Bigotry #Psychopathy #Narcissism #Narcissists #Sadism #Egoism #Selfishness #Spitefulness #Wars
#Empathy #Compassion #Kindness #Love #Peace
#GenuineConnection #Awareness #Freedom #Children #Parenting #Fatherhood #Motherhood #Family #Marriages #Growth #Change #Life #World
People in therapy are often in therapy to deal with the people in their lives who won't go to therapy.
#Trauma #Abuse [#DomesticAbuse #SexualAbuse #MentalAbuse #EmotionalAbuse #ChildAbuse #DigitalAbuse #TechnologyAbuse #GenderAbuse #Bullying #Harassment #Violence #Deception #Tragedy ] #SelfAbsorption #SelfCentredness #Selfishness #Jealousy #Envy #Hate #Bigotry #Psychopathy #Narcissism #Narcissists #Sadism #Egoism #Selfishness #Spitefulness #Wars
#Empathy #Compassion #Kindness #Love #Peace
#GenuineConnection #Awareness #Freedom #Children #Parenting #Fatherhood #Motherhood #Family #Marriages #Growth #Change #Life #World
We Can Hurt the Ones We Love When Recovering From Abuse
When recovering from abuse - particularly abuse from someone using narcissistic techniques - it's common for the recovering person to end up hurting the people who are in the healthiest relationships with them.
https://ideatrash.net/2020/03/we-can-hurt-the-ones-we-love-when-recovering-from-abuse.html?feed_id=466&_unique_id=672a75f3bae87
#abuse #emotionalabuse #narcissists #recovery
It Ain't Victim Blaming When I Choose To Be The Victim
You always have a choice.
https://ideatrash.net/2021/08/it-aint-victim-blaming-when-i-choose-to-be-the-victim.html?feed_id=454&_unique_id=67237c443872b
#abuse #boundaries #emotionalabuse
Traumas we tend to invalidate:
- #bullying
- #infertility
- #ChronicIllness
- #EmotionalAbuse
- #burnout
- multiple losses
- #FinancialInsecurity
- witnessing #violence
- #infidelity
- being #unemployed
- #abuse from authority figures
- breakup or #divorce
- #ForcedMigration
- undiagnosed #MentalHealth problems
Traumas we tend to invalidate:
- #bullying
- #infertility
- #ChronicIllness
- #EmotionalAbuse
- #burnout
- multiple losses
- #FinancialInsecurity
- witnessing #violence
- #infidelity
- being #unemployed
- #abuse from authority figures
- breakup or #divorce
- #ForcedMigration
- undiagnosed #MentalHealth problems
Raymond was convicted as well of placing his hand over the mouth of a four-year-old student until the child went limp.
Witnesses reported the punishment prevented the child from breathing “to the point of him going limp.” Afterward, the boy was “unable to stand.”
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That's #Asphyxiation #Suffocation #AttemptedMurder #ChildAbuse #MentalAbuse #EmotionalAbuse
What the fuck #Motherfucker
No penalty will equal the crime.
#Justice
"Bad" Black Kids & Plantation Parenting - Sunn M'Cheaux
Vulnerable little mammals, kids, ought to be safe from grown folks' + police brutality.
"Only the strong survive" might get us through some horrors but not unscathed.
#education #kids #adultification #epigenetics #history #innocence #Parenting #community #AdultSupremacy #Trauma #SchoolToPrisonPipeline
#CorporalPunishment
#ChildAbuse #nonconsensual #Spanking #Whooping #Hitting #EmotionalAbuse
#BreakingGenerationalCurses
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