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As someone taking the opposite path from the below image:

I navigated it most of my life by constantly and obsessively managing my threat presence. It felt like a constant battle with the toxicity of other men. I had my guard up not because there was some threat of women assaulting me, but because watching their guard go up around me felt like being stabbed in the gut, like a lifeline getting cut off.

It took trauma and ego death for me to really start building an actual community for myself. I had bits and pieces I had gathered carefully and with great effort, but all that toxicity kept me from knowing what to do with it.

Now, even later, transition has been a massive weight lifted. (For those in the closet or eggs cracking: people clocking you doesn't make much difference here, if they put up that anti-creep guard around you they're a bitch anyways)

I feel like I can breathe. Connection is so much more casually there. I can see it in people's eyes, I can be in a crowd of strangers and I feel drastically less alone.

Unfortunately, those years of malnourished pain don't just disappear. I still have all of those threat management patterns, I feel like I'm scarred and sometimes even bleeding from that. There's a caution in me, afraid that people will misinterpret, that this wonderful person I want to make friends with will abruptly shut down on me and then disappear from my life if I relax too much, if I'm too open... I still feel like I'm emotionally walking on tip toes...

#lgbt#lgbtqia#trans

Please make as much noise as you can about #YouTube going nazi with their hate speech policy by removing "gender identity and expression" (thus allowing hate to trans/ace/etc)

This is the support article to give feedback to (assuming it's read):

support.google.com/youtube/ans

Talk to any press, big creators, and youtube contacts you have. Companies need to feel massive pain every time this "anti DEI" (people; DEI means People) shit happens.

support.google.comHate speech policy - YouTube HelpThe safety of our creators,

This is the first Friday off in ages where I have zero appointments scheduled 🤯

So far I’ve already:
- Made breakfast
- Started multiple loads of laundry
- Did dishes
- Got kid on the bus
- Swapped bedsheets

Now, cleaning the bathtub.

Where did this trans-chore-mom energy come from?!?

(Yes, the #trans agenda is doing household chores)

Have a lovely day everyone.

HB1041 passed and while we heard some good fight out of some Dems, far too many turned coward and joined forces with MAGA to vote for this online conspiracy-theorist's fever-dream.

It doesn't make me feel better that they are just following the nationwide trend of throwing #trans people under the bus.

I can only hope they can find the spine to stand with us when MAGA comes back for adult medical care and our IDs.

I'm not confident.

DE: suche Menschen die #Schwarz #bipoc #linksradikal #intersektional #feministisch #autistisch #autismus #anarchistisch #trans #queer #behindert #neurodivergent #anarchist sind - könnt ihr bitte helfen? Mein Mastodon ist mir zu weiß. dankö ❤️🖤

EN: Looking for people that are #Black BIPOC #leftist #intersectional #feminist #autism #autistic #disabled neurodivergent #anarchism #anarchistic #decolonize #poly - could you pls help me? My Mastodon is too white. Pls share, thx! ❤️🖤

"The organization of sex and gender once had functions other than itself—it organized society. Now, it mainly organizes and reproduces itself. The kinds of relationships sexuality established in the dim human past still dominate our sexual lives, our ideas about men and women, and the ways we raise our children. But they lack the functional load they once carried. One of the most conspicuous features of kinship is that it has been systematically stripped of its functions—political, economic, educational, and organizational. It has been reduced to its barest bones—sex and gender...

we are not only oppressed as women; we are oppressed by having to be women—or men as the case may be. I personally feel that the feminist movement must dream of even more than the elimination of the oppression of women. It must dream of the elimination of obligatory sexualities and sex roles. The dream I find most compelling is one of an androgynous and genderless (though not sexless) society, in which one’s sexual anatomy is irrelevant to who one is, what one does, and with whom one makes love."

(Gayle Rubin, "The Traffic in Women")

#sex#gender#queer